{"id":31094,"date":"2021-11-07T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-11-06T23:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.decoboco.info\/en\/?p=31094"},"modified":"2026-09-24T13:45:30","modified_gmt":"2026-09-24T04:45:30","slug":"thoughts-is-control-through-fear-effective-where-is-the-truth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.decoboco.info\/en\/20211107\/blogs\/thoughts\/thoughts-is-control-through-fear-effective-where-is-the-truth","title":{"rendered":"[Thoughts] Is Control Through Fear Effective? Where Is the Truth."},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Have you ever heard or been told something like this?
If you keep going like this, it will be \u25cb\u25cb. It’s going to be a real problem. . . <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It seems fishy, but have you ever experienced a situation where you had to choose between two bad options? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whether it’s about your house, insurance, doctors, cars, or motorcycles,
I wonder if it’s true . . . but it’s scary. . . and you click.

Take three steps back and think it through carefully once. <\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Haven’t you experienced this with your house?
Contractors saying things like “You need to waterproof it soon” or “You need to do the exterior walls soon.”
We offer a 10-year warranty. Whether it’s terms and conditions or a contract, you really need to read through it carefully.

First, I wonder how much experience this person actually has. . . .
If you’re rushed into hiring and having work done, and problems arise years later, you don’t even know if the company will still exist. The documents have small, ambiguous gray-area language that could be interpreted any way, making them invalid, and there’s no one to clean up the mess\u2014that’s the truth. *This isn’t about me personally (*\u00b4\u25bd\uff40*)
If you don’t have the work done, it’s your responsibility. Whether you do it or don’t do it, actually . . . <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doesn’t this happen with doctors too?
Even when you don’t feel anything wrong, they say you should keep taking this medication.
Let’s say you’re told it’s genetic and can’t be cured, so you need to manage it with medication.

Where does that genetic knowledge come from?
Isn’t it more of a statistical matter in pharmacology rather than a therapeutic or curative judgment?
Is that information constantly being updated?

If problems arise from taking the medication long-term, who’s going to clean up the mess?
If you don’t take it, it’s your responsibility. If you do take it? Is it mutual responsibility? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doesn’t this happen with car repairs too?

This is already dangerous. We need to hurry. . . .
Really? Can you tell from the outside? . . .
When you ask what will happen if you leave it as is, they say “worst case scenario, it’s \u25cb\u25cb”
If you don’t repair it, it’s your responsibility. If you do repair it, everything’s fine, but if you don’t, it might have been nothing anyway. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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I’m not trying to criticize people in various professions.
First, it’s important to develop a good eye and a listening ear.
It’s quite likely that human services are not equal across the board.
When you really think about it, there’s a lot of control through fear in the world. There are good things, but there are also many inconvenient things. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you always take three steps back and think about things from a bird’s-eye view, objectively, I think you can feel and understand a lot. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever heard or been told something like this? If you keep going like this, it will be \u25cb\u25cb. It’s going to be a real problem. . . It seems fishy, but have you ever experienced a situation where you had to choose between two bad options? Whether it’s about your house, insurance, doctors, cars, or motorcycles, I wonder if it’s true . . . but it’s scary. . . and you click. Take three steps back and think it through carefully once.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":31093,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pochipp_cv_data":"","swell_btn_cv_data":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[269],"class_list":["post-31094","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-thoughts","tag-thoughts"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.decoboco.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31094","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.decoboco.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.decoboco.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.decoboco.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.decoboco.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31094"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.decoboco.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31094\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.decoboco.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31093"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.decoboco.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31094"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.decoboco.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31094"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.decoboco.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31094"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}