People tend to blame others for everything that comes up… (self-loathing)
In the end, everyone… sweeps things under the rug, sweeps things under the rug… (‘;’)
This is the easiest way, but I wonder if it causes everything to decay…
“Observe others’ conduct and correct your own” is what the ancients used to say so well.
It really is about constant self-improvement every day.
When something goes wrong, you sometimes hear people say, “That guy did this, that guy did that.”
But
didn’t my own choice play a role? Didn’t I fail to research well enough? Or was it a lack of verification?
It’s also good to hold yourself accountable.
For example, even when buying products or services, it was you who chose them. I think falling for exaggerated advertising is also part of the cause.
I understand the feeling of “That jerk!!!” but if you can think that you also bear responsibility for choosing, your anger will ease and your mind will become more generous, don’t you think?
Maybe it’s a trick to keeping your stomach from hurting and living peacefully day by day with a mild mindset?
